coffee life

long long time ago when i was still in primary school i read 1 comic book that tells about how the taste of coffee relates to life.

in the comic it says that if you get broken hearted, go drink a very bitter coffee therefore you can taste the bitterness of the life.
that time i don't really understand what does it means, but it been always drives me to drink coffee. i tot that the meaning in the comic is if you taste the bitterness of coffee then u'll b tougher or understand life better or sumthin like that.

so till this long finally i find out what it means...

so how i find it out is when i was chatting around with 1 of my friend after uni.

she ate "boost" chocolate and i drank latte without sugar. when chit-chating about our problems i'm kinda getting tempted by her chocolate, not my fave, but it tempt me.

especially my coffee was quite bitter and i was imaginating how nice it would be if i combine the choc taste and the bitter coffee, must b perfect..

so at the end of the meeting i bought the choc, and i'm still having my coffee..

but after i had a bite of the choc i felt that the coffee is even more bitter and it's killing me..

so then i realise what is the relation between coffee and life..

basically it's the common understanding about "adaptation"

when you used to drink bitter coffee you will still be able to taste the sweetness of choco

= you can enjoy both

but if u're not used to the bitter coffee and u used to eat choco then you can't taste the good thing out of coffee

= you only can enjoy choc and won't go for bitter coffee..

so when you have to relate it to life, lets get love life for example,

if you hv too much romance n love you'll b super stressed when u have problems and found the hurting side of the love.
but if you're used to broken hearted experience then the sweetness of love would feel even sweeter and you'll treasure it. yet, you still can adapt to the sweetness without being too spoiled in love.

this really a common sense but hard to do in real life..
the hardest part is to balance between the bitter and sweet.
coz of course no-one would stand the bitter for all life long..
and it is normal if human only wants sweetnesses..

but love is quite magical if you do it sincerely, you'll stay in the bitterness and believe that it is sweet after all, and cherish the sweetness so much when u find it.

i had a problem with josh since last week, it was a very tough week where i had assignments and still have to calm my brain down from thinking negative stuff . when i talk with 1 of my friend on that tea time the coffee really answers my questions why did i stay so calmly and strongly like that beside him. coz i love him so much till that i would believe in him, i believe that he's the 1 that will bring the best out of me and i believe that i can be the best for him.
i proud of myself of what i've been through and done.
i never tot that i would be able to do such a thing in my age of 20.
i 'm surprised to see the mature side of me that i've been waiting for years.

sorry that i can't specify the problem coz it's a bit personal, and this is in internet.
and i've been making josh's name bad and i don't wanna make it worse and would like to keep his reputation good in front of my friends.

however, keep the bitter and sweet in your life balanced
sorry for being too serious.. this is me..


well, basically the coffee would even taste more bitter if you always see Josh's face in the cup like in this picture..
peace Josh!! =D